Instead of focusing on the outcome, shift to behaviour-based goals.
These are centred on the actions you take every day—things that build the habits and skills needed to reach your bigger goal.
For example:
- Outcome goal: Lower blood sugar
- Behaviour goal: Take a 20-minute walk every day
- Outcome goal: Sleep 8 hours a night
- Behaviour goal: Start a bedtime routine 30 minutes before bed
- Outcome goal: Build strength
- Behaviour goal: Commit to 2–3 resistance training sessions each week
See the difference? You can’t force an outcome, but you can control the behaviours that lead there.